Have a great sex life in a Christian marriage by realizing that God made sex something to enjoy with your husband.
Were you someone that actually wondered if you would have a great sex life before you got married?
I was so naive that I didn’t even think about it.
Yes, I did think about our wedding night, and what it would be like, but I didn’t dwell on the fact that maybe I wouldn’t find it so much fun after all.
That it would become a chore, just another thing to cross off on my To-Do list.
Unfortunately, that’s exactly what happened.
My husband was in for a big disappointment. It didn’t take us very long (about a week) to figure out that our sex drives were vastly different!
Many hurts and tears were spent on our sex life.
With the years, we figured out what worked for us. With a bit of knowledge, be assured that you can have a great sex life.
Christians can have a wonderful sex life for God made the marriage bed, and His design was for us to enjoy it.
By understanding what libido is, by being intentional, and looking for ways to bless your husband, you are well on your way.
Do you suffer from low libido?
Do you even have a sex drive? That was a question I sometimes asked myself.
I did not understand what libido actually was. I just knew mine was a lot lower than my husband’s.
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The dictionary defines it as sexual desire, but what is normal?
There can be, and usually are, big differences in sexual desires between a married couple.
Almost always one of you will want it more! Mismatched libidos are incredibly common.
So how do you compromise, so that you are both satisfied and not depraved?
First of all, realize that God made sex to be a pleasurable experience for a husband and wife, not just for procreation.
1.Initiate It
2.Be adventurous
3.Send Him a Sexy Text.
4.Tell Him What You Want
5.Dress up Just For Him